Some cemeteries require all grave markers to be flat, which helps with grounds maintenance and care. However, some families may struggle with using this seemingly simple tribute to their loved ones. Fortunately, there are many unique ways to customize a flat grave marker to create a unique look and to celebrate the life of the dearly departed. Use this guide as inspiration when shopping around for a custom flat grave marker.

Integrated Flag Holder

An integrated flag holder is a great option for anyone who served in the military or was a member of law enforcement. Cemeteries, even those requiring flat grave markers, may allow flags for certain holidays. These holidays might include Veteran's Day, Memorial Day, and Pearl Harbor Day. By adding a flag holder to the grave marker, you can easily celebrate your loved one's years of service on these special days. 

Custom Engravings

Custom engravings add a more ornate look to simple flat grave markers, and the possibilities for what to have engraved are virtually endless. You can choose a cross and clasped prayer hands for a devout loved one, and floral embellishments create a serene look for any grave marker. Consider creating a replica of a police officer's or firefighter's badge to honor the person's commitment to public service. In the tragic event of the loss of a child, a cradle or baby booties can serve as fitting engravings to pay tribute to the little one. Some companies may even create etchings of your loved one's portrait for a lasting memorial. Talk to the staff at the monument company you choose to discuss different options you can use to create a truly beautiful custom look for your loved one's grave marker. 

Removable Vases And Vase Holes

Much like with flags, cemeteries may allow vases with flowers certain days of the year. Adding a vase hole to a flat cemetery marker makes it easier to display flowers on milestone days, including Christmas, Mother's Day, and Father's Day. While vases are typically meant to sit permanently in the flat grave marker, you can opt to remove the vase from the hole on days the flowers are not permitted. Be sure to check with the cemetery in advance to ensure this is allowed. You may be able to leave the flowers up for a few days or weeks, depending on the requirements, before the vase must be removed to allow for grounds maintenance crews to cut the grass and tend to the gravesites. 

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